
The space to learn requires an attitude of humbleness, not awesomeness. Check your ego at the door. Volunteer to be the least "successful" in the room, the one you are sure everyone will snicker at or feel a bit sorry for. After all, someone has to be last. Volunteer to occupy that post. My experience has taught me that the bottom post in the workshop is the best post. I experiment more, I try harder. I also get more of the instructor's time, because obviously I don't know what I'm doing. I'm struggling, I'm confused. I'm just who the instructor needs to and wants to help.
There is another thing I've learned from years of painting workshops. Not every instructor will give me something that "fits". In fact, some will rattle my style and my content for a number of months, trying to "paint like the instructor". Because of that, I've learned to be very choosy in my instructors. However, over the years every single instructor has always given me something, some little thing, some number of things, that has helped me move on in one way or another. Attending a workshop is never a "loss". I can always make a list of at least 10 things I learned from the experience and that's 10 more than if I had not attended.
We all tend to focus on the goal, the prize, being the "best", winning the ribbon, hearing the applause. For me that comes from competition, not a workshop. If I treat a workshop experience as competition, I lose. If I treat a workshop as a time and place to learn, to grow, then I gain and the applause and the ribbon is waiting on down the line.
The painting with this post is "Signs" (14" X 21" acrylic on paper). This was a transitional piece for me, following a workshop. I take the advice offered by the instructor, I see if it fits, I try it out for a while, and then I either incorporate it or discard it. I have the space required.